What am i?

My friend in response to me discussing a chick who I thought was flaky and very much a flirt told me women will make you their friend/brother, lover or some other thing I couldn't remember.

I have put myself in a position to make the first move towards what I will be. which is why I seem to have a lot of platonic women friends. It's also why when I "date" I tend to make first dates really ambiguous so I can have control over whether I want to date her again or let her make her decision without really knowing what I want out of it. so I end up not really losing, maybe.

But then I think I could turn into a heartbreaker -- no ego intended. cause I seem so repellent to the idea of the type of commitment to be in something serious. or maybe I need to feel that thing in my heart to go there. I think for now I will thread lightly when dating until I know for sure what I am doing. although the heartbreaker title does have its pros -- wait no it doesn't. I think I like the idea of power. I say POWER. Being the late bloomer that I am, I think I am getting my swagger now.